Self Love

Self love is the most important kind of love anyone can have for themselves. Because if you don't love yourself...really? How can you love anyone else?

Have you stopped to look at the world? Look at your life and wondered what could be different? So many of us are constantly searching for acceptance, We want to be appreciated. We want to be noticed. And above it all, we want to be loved. So we search for it in people, and in things and somehow we are still never satisfied. This is because we need to be searching for it within.

It is a great joy and privilege to present to you #theselflovepact for the third consecutive year! Those of you who have followed me for awhile know that this was a project that I launched in February of 2015 over at StylePact.com. Some of you have taken this program with great success. Some of you may still be on the fence. I encourage you to take it now if you haven't already. This is the last time that you will be able to access this program as it was originally created (with a couple upgrades) and completely FREE. If you have already completed the program, feel free to take it again. This will also be my third year participating in it.

Are you ready to make a change in your life? Are you ready to make a change in the world? Join in on this 4 week journey to loving yourself more, and share that new found love with those around you.

First go ahead and download your free workbook. Then come back to this page every week to watch the weekly insight video to help you with your weekly activities.

Once you have completed the full 4 week program, please return to complete the review

Here are some quotes on Self Love:

"Self-love has very little to do with how you feel about your outer self. It's about accepting all of yourself." - Tyra Banks

Had we not loved ourselves at all, we could never have been obliged to love anything. So that self-love is the basis of all love. - Thomas Traherne

To me, self-esteem is not self-love. It is self-acknowledgment, as in recognizing and accepting who you are. - Amity Gaige

I think the most important thing in life is self-love, because if you don't have self-love, and respect for everything about your own body, your own soul, your own capsule, then how can you have an authentic relationship with anyone else? - Shailene Woodley

I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect. - June Jordan

Self-love is really a foundation for everything, and however you practice or express that is so, so important. - Solange Knowles

People should accept being single, because those are the moments you can really focus on yourself, and learning who you are. Then when you get in a relationship, you will be stronger and have a little bit more self-awareness, self-love, and the other ingredients for a healthy relationship. - Lauren London

Beauty, by way of fashion, has to do with confidence, with flattering silhouettes, with patterns, with proper fit for body type, and with an abundance of self-love! - Mary Lambert

If we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them. - Bell Hooks

Well, I think everyone struggles with self-love. - Philip Seymour Hoffman

A modest dose of self-love is entirely healthy - who would want to live in a world where everyone hated themselves? But taken too far, it soon becomes poisonous. - Geoff Mulgan

I was born with confidence in myself and who I am. Even when I was a little kid, I felt that, and I carried it all through my years. I'm 26 now, and I'm still that person. I think every woman needs to have that self-love. Ricki-Lee Coulter

If you're not happy about how you look, you have to question how much self-love you have. - Tyrese Gibson

We can climb mountains with self-love. -Samira Wiley


Week 1: Forgiveness

Week 2: Affirmations

Week 3: Self Care

Week 4: Share The Love